Why is this happening only to me, sometimes you may feel shy to mingle with people and sometimes you may be in so much of depression. These issues will arise differently as per situation, so it will vary person to person as per situation.
So, these are few suggestions to give moral support and courage to tackle these situations.
Sometimes we all feel lonely and we will think that why all these happening only to me. We often go in depression and lose confidence, it is very difficult to think smart and make decision quickly but we have to start move out and face the world confidently. It would sound difficult first and later things will set right for us. Try to hang out with your friends and family members. Have confidence in you that you could go alone and face the world confidently. Pretend that you are brave and smart.
Try to mingle with friends and relatives with whom you feel comfortable. Whenever you speak to someone just makes note of the things which made you nervous and try to overcome those things on next time. Attend every party and function with your parents and observe how your mom and dad speaks with people and simply follow it up. One more thing when you move out some people may try to use your innocence and shyness never yield for them be confident.
Before going outside, have the confidence to face yourself first. If you are able to accept yourself and love it unconditionally despite what other people say then it will be very difficult to bring you done. Experience may strengthen you but if you cannot find it within yourself to endure such things then you are bound to fail. Keep a positive attitude and don’t let anything or anyone define you and bring you down
First take an off and go to some isolated place where you can have some peace of mind. May be a friend’s place or on a short tour. Try to find out the reasons for such happenings in life. I think if you realise that you are facing problems in life than you are smart enough to find the solutions to it. Focus on the areas of concern and immediate attention. Try to be in company of some good and influential people. Everything in life is temporary, if things are going good, enjoy it, if things are going bad don’t worry, it won’t last forever, either.
The thing is that in every corner of this world you would find dozens of people of different kinds, temperaments and personalities. The key to adjust is to be ORIGINAL. Of course, you have to adapt to the surroundings but that should not stop you from being yourself.
Maintain your identity. Be who you are! Let the world know your personality in its true colours. And even if they are westernized that’s their way of living…you can continue to live the way you want…People will appreciate your lifestyle and originality… and the rich people should be dealt with normally…you should not give them the feeling that you are overshadowed by them…but you have to treat them normally…don’t be rude. Be yourself. And always remember “There are more things that unite us than divide us”!
Don’t view anything to be a problem. Everything will work out to your good at the right time. Worrying cannot change anything. Today’s world is too different from the previous generation and things are done in an easy manner. Those situations you face today may seem to you as a problem but just have a positive thought for your life. You just avoid worrying and concentrate on your work. Read holy book or any motivational book, then you could feel something new, something different. You could feel what real love is. Surely you will get a life changing moment through and the problem will vanish away. Please don’t ignore this. God will turn everything for your good.
This is a standard problem all over the world. Some people think they are above everyone else, but don’t realize they are killing efficiency. In an ideal firm, everyone’s ideas are taken into account and worked upon. You feel like alone sometimes, when you have got so much bursting in you and nobody cares a damn. But there’s one thing you can do, keep a low profile and high grades. If you talk rarely and have got a gold medal record so to speak, people tend to listen. Be really polite and if you think you got something nag them. Keep going higher up the ladder. And also keep looking for a place that is more open to employees. You can’t fit in here by the looks of it. So, the strategy is live with it, try your best. And try to get your ideas work elsewhere, and if succeeds like hell there, tell those birdbrains that you were behind it, then they’ll know what they were missing. If u still can’t make it work, they are too thick and don’t deserve to have you there. They also don’t deserve your brains, keep looking to get out harder and just go to work every day, do normal stuff. Nothing more. Hope it gets well soon.
I told you exactly how to deal with your problems, people like this don’t respond well and they feel loneliness without sharing their feelings and they never try to face the challenges so read closely and adapt those what I mentioned, as per situation deal carefully and overcome your problems.
Be brave, tackle situation smartly and enjoy your life. Good luck.